"You don’t know anyone at the party, so you don’t want to go. You don’t like cottage cheese, so you haven’t eaten it in years. This is your choice, of course, but don’t kid yourself: it’s also the flinch.

Your personality is not set in stone. You may think a morning coffee is the most enjoyable thing in the world, but it’s really just a habit. Thirty days without it, and you would be fine. You think you have a soul mate, but in fact you could have had any number of spouses. You would have evolved differently, but been just as happy.

You can change what you want about yourself at any time. You see yourself as someone who can’t write or play an instrument, who gives in to temptation or makes bad decisions, but that’s really not you. It’s not ingrained. It’s not your personality. Your personality is something else, something deeper than just preferences, and these details on the surface, you can change anytime you like.

If it is useful to do so, you must abandon your identity and start again. Sometimes, it’s the only way.

Set fire to your old self. It’s not needed here. It’s too busy shopping, gossiping about others, and watching days go by and asking why you haven’t gotten as far as you’d like. This old self will die and be forgotten by all but family, and replaced by someone who makes a difference.

Your new self is not like that. Your new self is the Great Chicago Fire—overwhelming, overpowering, and destroying everything that isn’t necessary.

"

— Julien Smith
(via perfect)

(via blistered-soul)

Posted 1 week ago

"I could start fires with what I feel for you."

— Fires, David Ramirez (via petrichour)

(Source: ckgarden, via milkwolves)

Posted 1 week ago

polarvenn Tell your anon to go fuck himself.

-Seems like a nice idea. Those endorphins would help out.

Posted 1 week ago

Anonymous I bet as a good little feminist you are you don't like talking about breasts because they're irrelevant to women and you don't wanna say yours but if youre so happy with your breast youd say your size. I bet you've neer even worn a cleavage because that is women sellign their meat.

- Okay, you shouldn’t write when you are angry because then it’s hard for the other people to fully understand your message. Wait for a while before responding with anger. That was just some free advice, don’t get offended.

Now, yes I am happy with my feminism,my body as whole, my skills  and my personality is pretty peachy. If you are so judgemental with other people, maybe instead of hating them, you should work on yourself and be the change, be the person you want to meet. That’s nice, no?

Regarding cup size and cleavage, well that’s really up to me isn’t it? Considering that my body doesn’t belong to you, I can do whatever I want, it’s my right to do so according to the constitution. Freedom! Isn’t it wonderful?

Also, I would never say that a woman in a cleavage is selling her meat. She simply decided she wanted to wear that top. If she feels good, confident that’s really cool! Showing or hiding a cleavage is a personal decision that is up to women. Men don’t get a saying in that. She does it for herself, she shouldn’t have to worry that she might make some men uncomfortable with something so trivial as a piece of clothing. After all, you don’t really see women slut shaming men, do you?

Posted 1 week ago

Anonymous What cup size are you?

- Please stop asking this over and over again. I am happy with myself, I am happy with my breasts and that is all you need to know. Go walk your dog, hug your mom or read a book.

Posted 1 week ago

Anonymous I liked you text about the hole Angelina Jolei thing, however I caught myself wondring what you're breasts are like. I was just curious if that was written by a person w small breasts - meaning you'd be sort of jeallous bc she gets to put sillicon and stuff and obviously it's best for you to believe that femininity does not come with breast size. Or if you had really big breasts and for so you hate man tha stare at yours and you wish you could have a masectomy.

- I like my breasts.

If you needed to write this, you should really get some perspective on life.

Maybe, wiiiild guess, I support Angelina Jolie’s decision because I respect her as a person and I think she is the only one who should have a saying on anything related to her body.

Posted 1 week ago